the heart and the bottle by oliver jeffers

By having her heart in a bottle, it appears a vital connection to her own self, to her vitality, has been disconnected. With her heart in a bottle, the girl notices she can no longer feel positive emotions nor sense her imaginative and creative self. We try, one way or another, to stuff the pain into a jar and to put on a lid.Īs in life, the story within the book, The Heart and the Bottle, unfolds from there. In the story, the girl experiences and comes to notice how having her heart in a bottle has some unintended drawbacks. The story is about what many of us do with emotional pain at some point in time or another, how we sometimes attempt to find relief from the pain by doing our best to seal the pain-or even our whole hearts that contain the pain-into something akin to a glass bottle. The story is also about the girl’s experience of loss when the older person is no longer there, of the emotional pain she feels, and of how she copes with that pain, of what follows.Īfter the loss, “(f)eeling unsure, the girl thought the best thing was to put her heart in a safe place….So, she put it in a bottle and hung it around her neck… and that seemed to fix things… at first” (Oliver Jeffers).

The story is about a young girl who is curious about her world, engaged, creative, dreamy, joyful, and who has a loving bond with an older person (someone who appears to be akin to a grandparent based on the book’s illustrations). The story is about someone and something common-someone and something understandable, relatable.

The book, The Heart and the Bottle, written and illustrated by Oliver Jeffers (2010), wisely begins, “Once there was a girl much like any other…”.

The heart and the bottle by oliver jeffers